The Welcoming Nonprofit book cover
The book

The Welcoming Nonprofit

How Hospitality Builds Trust, Belonging, and Sustainable Support

Most organizations don't have a marketing problem. They have a clarity problem — and underneath that, a belonging problem.

This book is the argument for treating the people who fund your work like guests rather than throughput: an alternative to the funnel, built on hospitality, and drawn from Edward T. Hall, Christopher Alexander, and Joseph Myers.

What if the problem isn't your donors? What if it's the funnel?

Praise for the book
This book is transformative. Hiestand explains how we can't apply typical funnels, pipelines, and customer journeys to connecting donors with the causes they care deeply about.
David C. Baker“The Expert's Expert” (New York Times)
Todd gives leaders a clear, human-centered framework for replacing urgency-driven fundraising with trust-based partnership.
Mallory EricksonCEO, Practivated
For any organization seeking to move beyond the limitations of funnel-based thinking, this book provides a clear, actionable blueprint for doing so.
Tom WardExecutive Director, Advocacy Global
The Welcoming Nonprofit replaces an outdated mental model with the Four Spaces — a clear and actionable guide grounded in how people actually connect. Authentic, practical, and overdue.
Kelley HechtNonprofit Industry Executive
The framework

The Four Spaces of Nonprofit Engagement.

Rooted in the research of Edward T. Hall, Christopher Alexander, and Joseph R. Myers, the Four Spaces meet people where they are — not where your org chart says they should be. Belonging isn't a pipeline. It's a house with four rooms.

“We don't get to decide if someone belongs. They do.”

Strangers

The Sidewalk

First impressions, where clarity earns a second look.

Acquaintances

The Front Porch

The in-between, where curiosity turns into connection.

Friends

The Living Room

Where trust takes root and people join the story you're telling.

Partners

The Kitchen Table

The most intimate room — where your closest partners don't just support the mission, they help shape it.

What I'm working on next

The architecture of trust and authenticity.

I'm writing a new book about how nonprofits stay credibly human when anyone can generate a warm sentence in two seconds.

The first book mapped the architecture of belonging. This new work maps the architecture of trust, authenticity, and belonging. When polish becomes free, effort becomes the signal — and the scarce, trustworthy thing is evidence that a human actually bothered.

I build with AI every day. This is a builder's caution, not a luddite's.

The new book is taking shape in public, one letter at a time, on the blog.

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Bring it home.

Title
The Welcoming Nonprofit: How Hospitality Builds Trust, Belonging, and Sustainable Support
Foreword
Joseph R. Myers, author of The Search to Belong
ISBN
979-8-9949973-0-7